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November 30, 2015

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Overcoming Schema-Driven Relationship Problems

We often find ourselves repeating the same patterns over and over in relationships, so much so that it can sometimes feel like we’re dating or marrying the same person over and over. This is a common phenomenon, but there is a way to break these patterns, to have fulfilling relationships that reflect our deepest values.

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Schema Treatment: Comprehensive Guide & Techniques

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Effective NVC Communication: Understanding Needs and Wants

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Reparenting: Techniques, Benefits, and Principles

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Understanding the ACE Childhood Trauma Test to Assess Your Health Risks

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Bay Area CBT Center Expands Marriage Counseling Services to Los Angeles

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Best DBT Therapy Techniques According to a San Francisco Therapist

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Is Your Partner Avoidantly Attached? Try Couples Therapy in Los Angeles for Healing

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Bay Area Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Center Expands Treatment Offerings with Acceptance and Commitment Therapy

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Couples Therapy in Los Angeles for Feeling More Like Roommates Than Lovers

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The Most Common Schemas We See in Couples Therapy in Los Angeles

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