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March 28, 2018

Science-backed therapy tools, expert insights, and real talk on mental health, relationships, and personal growth.

Schema Chemistry: The Entitlement/Self-Sacrifice Trap

Schemas are the core beliefs we develop as a result of our early childhood interactions. They can inform many things about our adult lives, including the way we approach romantic relationships. For example, if you have ever found yourself feeling resentful and lonely in a relationship, a self-sacrifice schema could be at work. This is

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Understanding the ACE Childhood Trauma Test to Assess Your Health Risks

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Bay Area CBT Center Expands Marriage Counseling Services to Los Angeles

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Best DBT Therapy Techniques According to a San Francisco Therapist

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Is Your Partner Avoidantly Attached? Try Couples Therapy in Los Angeles for Healing

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Bay Area Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Center Expands Treatment Offerings with Acceptance and Commitment Therapy

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Couples Therapy in Los Angeles for Feeling More Like Roommates Than Lovers

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The Most Common Schemas We See in Couples Therapy in Los Angeles

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Best Couples Therapy in Los Angeles for Repairing After Explosive Fights

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A Guide To Transformative Mental Health and Wellness Retreats

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