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Narcissistic abuse occurs when an individual with narcissistic traits or narcissistic personality disorder manipulates, exploits, and emotionally controls their victims to serve their own needs and desires. This form of abuse is characterized by a range of destructive behaviors, including gaslighting (invalidating the victim’s perceptions and reality), emotional manipulation, demeaning criticism, belittling, and exploitation of...

Do you often find yourself struggling with anxiety and stress, searching for ways to calm your mind and body? What if we told you there’s a secret weapon already within you that has the power to alleviate anxiety, improve mental health, and enhance overall well-being? That secret weapon is your vagus nerve, and in this...

Have you ever planned to meet a friend at a restaurant after work, but somehow, you ended up at home instead? It’s like you were on “autopilot,” not paying attention, and just followed your usual route home without realizing it. This can happen when you’re feeling “dissociated,” which means you were mentally disconnected from the...

Let’s face it: we all get stuck in our thoughts sometimes, especially when they’re negative and obsessive. But what if we told you that there’s a way to overcome this cycle of rumination and gain equanimity over your mental well-being? What if you could cultivate a profound sense of inner balance, calmness, and emotional stability?...

Relationships can be a source of joy and fulfillment, but they can also be stressful and challenging. The pressures of daily life, conflicts, and unresolved issues can take a toll on even the strongest of partnerships. However, there is hope for couples who find themselves overwhelmed by relationship stress. Couples therapy provides a valuable resource...

Imagine a younger version of yourself, with all the dreams, hopes, fears, and experiences that shape who you are today. This version is not just a memory, but an integral part of you – your ‘inner child’. Embarking on a journey to understand, heal, and nurture this inner child is a transformative process that can...

In this blog post, we dive into cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) techniques specifically tailored for those grappling with a dismissive-avoidant attachment style. Dismissive avoidant individuals often prioritize independence to the point of pushing others away, viewing self-sufficiency as a shield against vulnerability. This attachment style can lead to challenges in forming and maintaining close relationships. This...

Trust is a fundamental pillar of any successful and fulfilling relationship. It serves as the bedrock upon which a healthy and strong partnership is built. When trust is present, it creates a sense of security, emotional intimacy, and mutual respect between partners. Conversely, the absence of trust can lead to doubts, insecurities, and even the...

In a world constantly moving at full speed, stress within the workplace has become a widespread issue. Alarmingly, a recent study suggests that about 83% of US workers suffer from work-related stress. Are you part of this majority, battling with overwhelming workplace stress? Have you tried traditional coping methods, only to find yourself back at square...

Conflict is a natural part of any relationship, whether it be with a partner, family member, friend, or colleague. However, the way we approach and resolve conflicts can significantly impact the strength and longevity of our relationships. Many of us have a fear of conflict because we lack the skills, but the reality is that...

Gaslighting at work is a type of emotional abuse where the gaslighter tries to make the victim doubt their own thoughts, feelings, and perceptions. It’s a manipulative tactic that undermines a person’s self-confidence and can lead to feelings of confusion, frustration, and anxiety. Gaslighting at work can happen to anyone, regardless of their gender, age,...

Experiencing a breakup can be an incredibly challenging and painful time in our lives. The emotions that arise during this period can feel overwhelming, leaving us feeling lost and unsure of how to move forward. However, by integrating tools and techniques from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Schema Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Somatic...

Dr. Lev discusses toxic positivity and ACT Therapy with Dr. Kim Swales In this episode, Kim talks to psychotherapist, Dr. Avigail Lev about toxic positivity and acceptance and commitment therapy for couples. First, they discuss what toxic positivity is, how it impacts us and our anxiety and ways to deal with it. Then, Dr. Lev...

S11E18: How you’re wired (for relationships) Dateable: Your insider’s look into modern dating If you’re into attachment theory & personality types, prepare to have your mind blown. This podcast features Dr. Avigail Lev, PsyD and we discuss how our thought patterns and beliefs (aka our schemas) shape everything from how we show up for relationships to which partners we choose....

Dr. Lev and Dr. Drew: A CBT Exploration Licensed clinical psychologist, CBT Online Founder, & Author Dr. Abby Lev joins Dr. Drew this week for a deep dive on cognitive behavioral therapy as they attempt to go through the process live on the Dr. Drew podcast. Click to listen to Dr. Drew and Dr. Lev...