Transform Your Relationship with a Customized Couples Retreat, Designed for You!
Tailored Couples Retreats That Rewire Your Relational Dynamic

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Couples Retreats for Deep Healing and Repair
At Bay Area CBT Center, we offer fully customized couples retreats for partners seeking real transformation. Whether you’re feeling stuck in conflict, growing apart, or struggling to communicate, our retreats are designed to interrupt toxic cycles, reignite intimacy, and create meaningful change.
This isn’t your average couples retreat vacation. Our couples therapy retreats are personalized, therapist-led experiences that go deep into your relationship dynamics using science-backed approaches that work. Whether you’re looking for a couples retreat therapy weekend, a longer format, or an immersive mental health retreat for couples, you’ll get a tailored experience that meets you exactly where you are—and gives you the tools to move forward.
What Makes Our Couple Retreats Unique?
Unlike most couple retreats that follow a one-size-fits-all program, our process is highly personalized from start to finish. Each couples retreat begins with a thorough application and assessment process, including both individual and joint questionnaires. We identify the specific patterns, emotional injuries, and needs of your relationship using tools like the Schema Couples Inventory.
From there, we build a fully tailored couples therapy retreat vacation package just for you. Every exercise, conversation, and intervention is curated around your specific goals, attachment styles, and values. You won’t be sitting in generic lectures—you’ll be doing powerful, targeted work that creates real breakthroughs.
We offer multiple retreat formats, allowing you to choose what resonates most
Couples Retreats: Crafted for Every Depth of Healing
Our couples retreats are tailored to your needs—length, intensity, focus, and therapeutic approach—ensuring a personalized healing experience. Whether you need deep trauma work, emotional processing, or structured therapy, we design a retreat that aligns with your goals.
3-Day Intensive Retreats
Focused on skill-building, emotional processing, and nervous system regulation.
5-Day Deep-Dive Retreats
Designed for those looking to integrate deeper healing modalities and reconnect with themselves and others.
7-Day Transformational Retreats
Immersive, life-changing experiences incorporating somatic work, evidence-based therapy, and interpersonal mindfulness.
8-Week Hybrid Program
A blend of online support groups and an in-person retreat for long-term integration and growth.
Why Choose a Customized Couple Therapy Retreat?
A couples therapy retreat offers an opportunity to pause the chaos of daily life and finally address what’s happening beneath the surface. Instead of spreading therapy out over months with one-hour sessions, a couples therapy retreat compresses the work into a few powerful, focused days—allowing for deeper insight, more rapid change, and stronger connection.
You’ll have the space to fully drop into the work without distractions, defenses, or time limits. This immersive format creates a safe container for real breakthroughs, emotional repair, and renewed intimacy.
The Power of a Couples Retreat and Therapy Immersion
A couples retreat and therapy immersion is for partners caught in patterns of disconnection—those looping arguments, quiet resentments, and the aching sense that you’ve drifted apart. Whether you’re facing betrayal, struggling with intimacy, or bracing for a major life transition, this is your chance to pause and go deeper.
Through focused therapeutic work and real-time emotional repair, you’ll begin to shift the patterns that keep you stuck. Being in a supportive space with other couples adds another layer of healing—there’s something powerful about growing together, witnessing each other, and remembering you’re not alone.
More than just a reset, a couples wellness retreat gives you the structure, guidance, and shared experience needed to transform your relationship—together.
Personalized, Evidence-Based, Holistic Retreats Designed by Licensed Therapists
Join Us for Our Customized Couples Retreat
Looking for a couples retreat but unsure where to start? We curate retreats tailored to you. Here’s how it works:
✔ Apply
Fill out an application to help us understand your ideal retreat experience.
✔ Interview
We ensure a deeply aligned group and personalized experiences.
✔ Join us
Step into a retreat designed for deep connection and transformation
Types of Couples Retreats We Offer
Real connection. Genuine support. A place where you finally belong.
- Trauma-Focused Couples Retreats
- Digital Detox & Reconnection Retreats
- Attachment Rewiring for Couples
- Boundaries & Emotional Safety Retreat
- Core Belief & Pattern Breakthrough Retreat
- Grief Support Retreat for Couples
- Embodied Relational Yoga Retreat
- Nonviolent Communication Couples Retreat
- Codependency & Enmeshment Recovery Retreat
- Authentic Relating for Couples
- Nervous System Co-Regulation Retreat
- Psychedelic Integration for Couples
- Shame, Vulnerability & Compassion Retreat
- Values Alignment & Life Design for Couples
Design Your Ideal Couples Retreat Experience
We offer options for private and group couples retreats, including access to pre- and post-retreat integration support. Whether you’re looking for an intimate experience with just your partner and a therapist, or a community learning environment where you engage alongside a few other couples, our retreats are designed to give you focused, transformative results.
We also offer larger group formats with 6 to 12 couples, creating a community learning model where couples benefit not just from their own work, but from seeing the universality of relational challenges. These larger group retreats balance educational workshops with guided breakout sessions and personalized attention from our facilitation team. This format fosters a sense of connection, compassion, and hope, helping couples recognize that they are not alone in their patterns or pain.
Evidence-Based and Holistic Couples Retreats
Our couples retreats create lasting change by addressing the root causes of relationship struggles—not just surface-level conflict. We uncover the deeper emotional patterns and beliefs keeping you stuck in painful cycles.
You and your partner will learn how to break toxic dynamics, reconnect with your wise selves, and take meaningful, values-based action—together. Our unique integrative protocol—featured in several published books—blends ACT, Schema Therapy, and somatic practices to create real-time shifts in connection and communication.
Through shared healing and authentic relating, you’ll rebuild trust, deepen intimacy, and foster true relational growth.
Retreats Backed by Groundbreaking Clinical Work
As Outlined in Our Therapy Books
Therapies and Practices We Integrate at Our Retreats
Each retreat draws from a curated blend of evidence-based and holistic modalities to support deep healing:
- Schema Therapy – uncover long-standing relationship schemas and core wounds
- ACT Therapy – align your behaviors with your values and move through avoidance
- Mindfulness-Based Therapies – build awareness and soothe reactivity
- CBT Yoga – support somatic regulation and body-based healing
- Existential Therapy – face life’s questions, accept uncertainty, and act with purpose.
- Nonviolent Communication – repair ruptures and improve emotional attunement
- EMDR Therapy – reprocess trauma, relieve distress, and restore balance.
- DBT Therapy – build skills for distress tolerance and emotional regulation
- Compassion-Focused Therapy – reduce inner criticism and increase self-acceptance
- Somatic Therapy – regulate the nervous system through body awareness
- Interpersonal Mindfulness – strengthen your ability to connect safely and authentically
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) – restore harmony between mind, body, and behavior
INNOVATIVE GROUP EXPERIENCES
Apply for Your Customized Couples Retreat Today
A customized couples retreat at Bay Area CBT Center isn’t just a romantic escape—it’s a strategic, personalized experience designed to transform your relationship from the inside out. Tailored to your unique dynamics, our retreats integrate evidence-based couples therapy, mindfulness, and somatic practices to help you break dysfunctional patterns, reduce conflict, and reconnect with each other on a deeper level.
Apply now to design your personalized retreat.
Who Should Attend a Retreat for Couples?
Our retreats for couples are designed for anyone ready to do the real work of healing, growing, or strengthening their relationship. You do not need to be in crisis to benefit from our retreats—but if you are, we’ll meet you there. This experience is ideal for couples who:
✔️ Feel stuck in negative patterns and want to reset
✔️ Are navigating a major life or relationship transition
✔️ Want to reconnect after growing apart
✔️ Struggle with communication, trust, or emotional intimacy
✔️ Are recovering from betrayal or breach of trust
✔️ Want to strengthen their connection and commitment
✔️ Want to learn skills for long-term relational health
Whether you’ve been together for 6 months or 60 years, this work will meet you where you are.
Frequently Asked Questions
A couples retreat at Bay Area CBT Center is an intensive, customized therapy experience designed to help you and your partner break unhealthy patterns, deepen connection, and rebuild trust. It’s a focused, immersive alternative to weekly therapy sessions—allowing you to make more progress in a few days than you might in months of traditional therapy.
Each retreat is tailored to your specific needs and relationship dynamics. You’ll engage in evidence-based therapy sessions, experiential exercises, mindfulness practices, and real-time communication work guided by a licensed couples therapist. Depending on your goals, the retreat may also include somatic work, schema identification, role plays, boundary and communication skill-building, and structured emotional repair sessions.
Costs vary depending on the length, format (in-person or online), and level of customization. Retreats typically range from $2,500 to $6,000. We offer a range of options including half-day, full-day, weekend, and multi-day intensives. Some retreats may be covered by PPO insurance plans in California—check your coverage here.
Yes—especially when the retreat is personalized, structured, and led by an experienced therapist. Our couples retreats go far beyond generic relationship advice; they target the core patterns causing disconnection and equip you with tools for lasting change. Many couples report significant breakthroughs, improved communication, and renewed intimacy after just a few days.
If you’re a California resident with a PPO plan, some of our retreat packages may be reimbursable under out-of-network benefits. Use our Health Insurance Checker to find out if your plan qualifies. We’ll also provide you with a superbill upon request.
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